Lover's List

Here are 1,024 things I want in a lover! I spent nearly 3 weeks on this. Please keep in mind that this is not a list to be strictly upheld. For I have dated plenty and will date plenty of people who reside outside this list. There is a lot of gray area. This merely serves as an exercise for me to become aware of my wants and desires. This list will be limitless, however, and I will post links to updated versions of it as time passes. I hope this list inspires you to determine your wants, needs, and desires.

I want someone who I will feel completely comfortable in my skin with. I've never had that.
I want someone who will listen to my random, and often pointless ramblings.
I want someone who is sexually open and with a very high sex drive.
I want someone who can stay up late with me.
I want someone who will listen and talk about dreams.
I want someone to share silence with, who doesn't feel the need to always fill it in.
I want someone who can compliment me whenever they felt like it and not just because I complimented them.
I want someone who can take constant compliments without ever thinking I have an ulterior motive.
I want someone who will listen to me ramble about astrology regardless of their beliefs.
I want someone who doesn't mind touchy affection and who can also live without it in moments.
I want someone who is almost always turned on by my touch.
I want someone who doesn't judge me and my actions.
I want someone who is capable of laughing until they cry.
I want someone who enjoys text messaging at nearly all hours of the day and night.
I want someone who absolutely loves to read and has respect for literature.
I want someone who enjoys intellectual stimulation almost as much as they enjoy sexual stimulation.
I want someone who loves dogs.
I want someone who is intrigued and even attracted to every quirk I have.
I want someone that doesn't mind being both dominant and submissive in bed.
I want someone who doesn't have any interest in having children.
I want someone who can recognize and appreciate all the good that I do.

I want someone who is willing to learn what it's like to be with and to know deaf people.
I want someone who prefers warmer weather.
I want someone who is not homophobic or racist, not even the slightest.
I want someone who isn't afraid to talk about death or any other morbid topics.
I want someone who can engage in vulgar conversations.
I want someone who understands that emotional and physical cheating is still cheating.
I want someone that wouldn't reject the idea of spending an entire day in bed having sex.
I want someone that won't hoard my space on the bed.
I want someone that respects my relationships or lack thereof with my family members.
I want someone that enjoys the company of my friends.
I want someone who doesn't mind if I want to do things alone.
I want someone that is understanding of my close friendships with people of both sexes.
I want someone who is literate.
I want someone who doesn't talk over me in social settings.
I want someone that would make some sacrifices for me and acknowledge any sacrifices I have made for them.
I want someone who will give me massages and will enjoy the ones I have to offer.
I want someone who can handle the fact that people are going to hit on me or constantly approach me in public.
I want someone who won't control me.
I want someone who has very little to absolutely no religious beliefs.
I want someone who has high values for morals.
I want someone that will truly listen to every word I say.
I want someone who won't give advice unless I ask for it.
I want someone to enjoy my artwork but won't critique it unless asked.

I want someone who gives a shit to read my blog.
I want someone who believes in evolution.
I want someone who enjoys the little things.
I want someone who is addicted to film and media just as I am.
I want someone who has their own creative outlet and isn't ashamed.
I want someone that likes to be rough in bed.
I want someone to never give me shit for the music, movies, or books I enjoy as I will do exactly the same.
I want someone who isn't scared of commitment but is cautious.
I want someone who will treat others as they want to be treated.
I want someone who doesn't talk about themselves all the time.
I want someone who isn't an alcoholic or a drug user.
I want someone who can laugh at themself.
I want someone who doesn't mind 90's music.
I want someone who isn't afraid of glitter.
I want someone who is turned on by me most of the time, and increasingly so.
I want someone who is severely passionate.
I want someone who has good hygiene and takes good care of their teeth.
I want someone who has attractive hands.
I want someone who has goals in life.
I want someone who isn't addicted to the Internet or television.
I want someone who has an incredible amount of humor but also knows when to be serious.
I want someone that has at least the slightest sense of style.
I want someone who enjoys the smell of skin.
I want someone who says good night to me.
I want someone that will occasionally serve breakfast in bed.
I want someone with decent legs.
I want someone who won't give me flowers.
I want someone who absolutely loves the taste of vagina.
I want someone who appreciates art.
I want someone who won't interrupt me while I'm talking.

I want someone who enjoys going to concerts from time to time.
I want someone who can hold a job for a considerable amount of time.
I want someone who doesn't need substances to have a good time.
I want someone that will kiss me for no reason or any reason at all.
I want someone with an education.
I want someone who calms me down when all isn't well.
I want someone who is silly.
I want someone who finds some strange things about me sexy.
I want someone who doesn't feel the need to be married.
I want someone to laugh with, not at.
I want someone who is comfortable with their sexuality.
I want someone who will find ways to tease me sexually.
I want someone who captures my attention.
I want someone with manners.
I want someone who enjoys birthdays and anniversaries.
I want someone who is witty and clever.
I want someone who doesn't let entertainment sports dictate their lives.
I want someone who can enjoy the ride of films regardless of their predictability, dramatics, clichés, cheesiness, etc.

I want someone with a big heart.
I want someone who doesn't mind spending a day doing absolutely nothing.
I want someone who knows how to cheer me up effortlessly when necessary.
I want someone with a dirty mind.
I want someone who knows how to cook.
I want someone who can let me do the planning when I wish.
I want someone who always acknowledges my presence.
I want someone who has a lot of random knowledge and always surprises me.
I want someone with a good balance of sense of planning and spontaneity.
I want someone who enjoys romantic dates and activities.
I want someone who loves learning.
I want someone that is fascinated with the occult.
I want someone who doesn't believe that gender roles are how it is supposed to be.
I want someone who respects and does not objectify women.
I want someone who will let me be me in the sense of both masculinity and femininity.
I want someone who doesn't expect nor allow me to put them on a pedestal.
I want someone who doesn't have to be attached to their cell phone 24/7.
I want someone who will say good things about me to others.
I want someone who takes pleasure in all sorts of food.
I want someone who is easily turned on.
I want someone who enjoys showers for two.
I want someone who is expressive about what is on their mind.
I want someone who will remember our anniversary.
I want a good kisser.
I want someone who doesn't mind if I make the first moves.
I want someone is open to all sorts of music.
I want someone who enjoys mix CDs.
I want someone who is an excellent communicator or willing to be so.
I want someone enjoys anatomy.
I want someone who likes the smell of vanilla.
I want someone that doesn't mind public displays of affection but also doesn't always have to have it.
I want someone who appreciates my style and colorful expression.
I want someone who is older.
I want someone who is incredibly open minded.
I want someone who is compassionate.
I want someone that likes to talk about the past.
I want someone who doesn't mind talking about exes, and recognizes I have no feelings for mine.
I want someone who learns from their mistakes and those of others.
I want someone who is mature and takes responsibility for themselves.
I want someone that values education.
I want someone who is vocal about what feels good sexually.
I want someone who is good at reading my body language.
I want someone who is willing to go out if I feel like going out.
I want someone whose company I enjoy no matter what we are doing or not doing.
I want someone that will just text or call to say hi and show they're thinking of me.
I want someone who is comfortable about the natural occurrences of the human body.
I want someone that takes relationships and emotions seriously.
I want someone who isn't mentally crazy.
I want someone who knows what they want.
I want someone who is good at telling stories.
I want someone who enjoys stand up comedy.
I want someone who is very observant and detail oriented.
I want someone that can tolerate and love my retardations.
I want someone who is happy or is actively seeking happiness.
I want someone that won't get jealous of my friends.
I want someone who recognizes that I have a big heart and am not an idiot.
I want someone who won't force me to dance or sing if I don't want to.
I want someone who cares about my comfort.
I want someone feels that people are generally good.
I want someone who doesn't mind my protective and sometimes possessive nature.
I want someone who has an optimistic and/or realistic outlook.
I want someone who doesn't take their anger out on me.
I want someone who doesn't lie.
I want someone who doesn't feel the need to check out people when we're together.
I want someone who isn't harshly judgmental.
I want someone likes to play question games.
I want someone who isn't bothered by my bisexuality.
I want someone that has a nerdy side.
I want someone with a healthy dose of self confidence.
I want someone who is good with words.
I want someone who enjoys board games.
I want someone who doesn't mind repetition of some things.
I want someone who is always ready for sex.
I want someone who doesn't take me for granted.

I want someone who could sit in one place and watch the sky.
I want someone who would enjoy a day/evening/night out at the park.
I want someone who likes camping and road trips.
I want someone that enjoys bodies of water.
I want someone who enjoys being tied up and tying me up.
I want someone who loves hotels.
I want someone who isn't clingy or codependent but will acknowledge the significance of my role in their life. 
I want someone who cares about my happiness.
I want someone who isn't socially awkward or rude.
I want someone who enjoys my rather animated sense of expression.
I want someone who will give me the same compliment over and over because it will never get old.
I want someone who isn't thinking about what they want to say while I am talking.
I want someone who is a giver in bed.
I want someone that is fascinated and intrigued by all the things I like.
I want someone who is a strong individual.
I want someone who takes love very seriously and doesn't say it too soon.
I want someone that stands up for what they believe.
I want someone who values my orgasm as much or more as their own.
I want someone who I can communicate easily with without my hearing aids.
I want someone who has little to no addictions.
I want someone who looks at me when I'm not looking.
I want someone who moves the hair out of my face.
I want someone who gives the best hugs.
I want someone who enjoys lingerie.
I want someone who is true to their feelings and not going to hide them because it's culturally unacceptable for certain genders, etc.
I want someone who isn't bothered by my crying during movies, art performances, music, etc.
I want someone who is good with their money.
I want someone with a great laugh.
I want someone who will pull my hair.
I want someone sees my obsessive nature as a good thing.
I want someone who is caring and sharing.
I want someone is good at seeing things from other perspectives.
I want someone who is effortlessly sexy in my eyes.
I want someone who enjoys my colored hair, tattoos, and piercings.
I want someone who will wipe away my tears.
I want someone just can't control their sexual urges with me.
I want someone enjoys going to the movie theaters.
I want someone who doesn't mind watching television or film with subtitles every now and then.
I want someone who will never cease to caress my body passionately no matter how long we've been together.
I want someone who I feel comfortable with to let them know so much about me.
I want someone who won't be frightened by the context of some of my dreams, especially the sexual ones.

I want someone who likes vampires.
I want someone who understands that I can take quite some time to really process events and spoken thoughts.
I want someone whose passion only increases with time rather than subsiding as the relationship progresses.
I want someone who won't let sex be just some routine.
I want someone who will care for me when I'm sick.
I want someone who welcomes me to their house any and all times and doesn't take offense if I'm not always there or don't want to stay a certain night.
I want someone who trusts me.
I want someone who likes depressing music, as I do.
I want someone who is more sexually experienced than I am, and/or willing to learn/do new things.
I want someone who can easily help me if I can't hear something or someone.
I want someone drives their own car.
I want someone who preferably has a place of their own.
I want someone who doesn't like or attract drama in their life.
I want someone who isn't wishy-washy.
I want someone who understands the convenience of my references to astrology in conversation half of the time.
I want someone open to change and is adaptable in life.
I want someone who doesn't mind the occasional visit to fast food chains.
I want someone who likes sex toys.
I want someone who can tolerate my crappy story telling skills and my obsession with describing little details and so called trivial events.
I want someone who thinks my occasional stuttering/speech errors are cute.
I want someone who doesn't rush me.
I want someone who is incredibly punctual and always holds to their agreement to plans and is never flaky.
I want someone that enjoys messy sex.
I want someone that isn't a kleptomaniac.
I want someone who is honest.
I want someone who respects other living beings.
I want someone that enjoys my self realizations as much as I do.
I want someone who is self aware.
I want someone who is curious about anything and everything.
I want someone is always willing to get to know more about me.
I want someone who won't mind me smelling and sniffing them whenever I feel like it.
I want someone that will appreciate me always.
I want someone who will miss me when I'm not around.
I want someone who is generous.
I want someone that enjoys the simple pleasures in life.
I want someone who understands that I hate coffee breath.
I want someone who understands and respects philosophy and ethics.
I want someone who will open doors for me and not feel weird when I do the same.
I want someone that has a child like enjoyment for certain things.
I want someone who could converse with me hours upon end.
I want someone who is inspiring and insightful.
I want someone who is good at reading and describing others.
I want someone who is willing to look around and really appreciate the little things.
I want someone who stimulate my mind constantly, question me, open me up, and promote personal growth.

I want someone who is interested in mythology, archaeology, and anthropology.
I want someone who could get lost in enjoyment at a bookstore.
I want someone who appreciates complex music.
I want someone that will plan surprises for me.
I want someone that will kiss and nibble on my neck.
I want someone who appreciates nature.
I want someone who is a hopeless romantic at times.
I want someone who isn't afraid to talk about the future.
I want someone who likes psychology and sociology.
I want someone who is cultured.
I want someone that cherishes the beauty of music in film.
I want someone who adores and admires me.
I want someone that doesn't mind silly wrestling and tickling fun.
I want someone is straight forward and doesn't play mind games.
I want someone who expresses their happiness with me and my presence.
I want someone who doesn't condescend me or make me feel stupid.
I want someone who wants me to meet their friends and family.
I want someone who is good at conversing with new people.
I want someone who doesn't feel the need to fight and argue all the time.
I want someone that isn't bothered by my age.
I want someone to cuddle with.
I want someone who will turn the light on when it's dark so I can read their lips while they're talking.
I want someone who will understand that my attraction and passion for them will only increase after time.
I want someone who will kiss my legs.
I want someone who has their own amusing quirks.
I want someone who can handle my intensity.
I want someone who makes me smile and smiles when I'm around.

I want someone who will actually kiss me, while I'm usually the one doing the kissing.
I want someone who doesn't mind if I playfully make fun of them out of fondness.
I want someone who doesn't pressure me.
I want someone who will always tell me I'm beautiful.
I want someone who can be cheesy and unashamed.
I want someone who is humble as I am.
I want someone who is a good partner and lover.
I want someone who I could feel comfortable talking on the phone to without having much difficulty.
I want someone who thinks my shyness is adorable.
I want someone who doesn't find repetitive silly jokes or phrases annoying.
I want someone who is completely comfortable with taboo subjects.
I want someone who I don't have to censor myself around.
I want someone that says thank you at every chance they can.
I want someone who doesn't mind holding hands.
I want someone who will warm me up when I'm cold.
I want someone who is comfortable with themselves.
I want someone who isn't disrespectful to other living beings.
I want someone who is fascinated by the mysterious and unafraid.
I want someone who is an excellent conversationalist.
I want someone who isn't afraid to express their feelings.
I want someone that asks questions and is genuinely interested.
I want someone who won't take advantage of me.
I want someone who is content with just sitting around with great conversation.
I want someone who is patient.
I want someone who will do things for others, even without being asked.
I want someone who is genuine.
I want someone who enjoys gifts.
I want someone that isn't a douchebag.
I want someone massage and caress me.
I want someone who will spontaneously say something nice.
I want someone who finds nature therapeutic.
I want someone who will still kiss me even when I'm sick.
I want someone that doesn't automatically think that different things or people are weird.
I want someone who enjoys smiling often.
I want someone that can take care of themselves.
I want someone doesn't care the size of my body.
I want someone that is intrigued by other cultures and people.
I want someone with a decent or excellent memory.
I want someone who has a well of random knowledge.
I want someone that appreciates instrumental music.
I want someone who has a dorky/nerdy side.
I want someone that actually enjoys talking about the future of the relationship.
I want someone who doesn't feel the need to follow stereotypes.
I want someone who includes me.
I want someone that my friends like.
I want someone that isn't easily grossed out by colorful conversation.
I want someone who isn't extremely feminine nor extremely masculine.
I want someone who isn't bothered by others hitting on me.
I want someone that has a profound mind and is constantly growing and desiring to do so.
I want someone who will tantalize me.
I want someone who doesn't immediately judge the "others".
I want someone who won't grow tired of me and my ways.
I want someone that has a really off the wall humor.
I want someone who doesn't believe the deaf are disabled.
I want someone that doesn't let things bring them down.
I want someone that has a cheesy side.
I want someone who will be there for me.
I want someone who doesn't envy others for their success and happiness.
I want someone who won't disappoint me.
I want someone with empathy.
I want someone who isn't a sore loser but enjoys competition.
I want someone who is fine with being alone but does desire my company.
I want someone who likes to dress up for Halloween no matter what their age.
I want someone who is too good to be true.
I want someone that desires to make my fantasies a reality.
I want someone with a contagious laugh.
I want someone who is, in my eyes, sexy, beautiful, and adorable all the same.
I want someone who appreciates the depth of my mind.
I want someone who is consistently amused by me.
I want someone who can understand me without my having to explain everything.
I want someone who enjoys how animated I am when I talk.

I want someone that loves sushi.
I want someone who encourages and supports me.
I want someone who makes me feel really good about myself instead of the opposite.
I want someone that I can talk to without words.
I want someone that grabs my ass whenever they feel like it.
I want someone to share non-awkward silences with.
I want someone who will get me to try new things.
I want someone who will kiss my nose.
I want someone who likes to spice things up in bed...or on other surfaces.
I want someone who is laid back and easy going.
I want someone with good grammar and spelling.
I want someone who will smile in photos.
I want someone who isn't addicted to porn.
I want someone who doesn't always overlook the so called trivial things.
I want someone who is preferably a good astrological match.
I want someone who won't act like they are really paying attention to me if I sing in front of them.
I want someone who knows what beverage to order for me if we are out and I step away.
I want someone who doesn't believe in sex as a routine.
I want someone who doesn't mind my love for making lists.
I want someone who doesn't have anything against poetry.
I want someone will hold or carry my things if I needed them to.
I want someone who I feel comfortable enough around to fall asleep with.
I want someone who is a safe driver.
I want someone who likes to cuss.
I want someone who will let me put my cold feet and/or hands on them to warm up.
I want someone who will let me sleep on the right side of the bed.
I want someone who will blindfold me and pleasure me.
I want someone who remembers my birthday.
I want someone who doesn't mind if I call them "dude."
I want someone who can make me laugh til I cry or may need a visit to the bathroom.
I want someone who recognizes their own bad jokes or lines.
I want someone who gives a shit about the welfare of others.
I want someone who can joke about Chuck Norris.
I want someone who will plan out an entire romantic night for us from time to time.

I want someone loves and appreciates the gay community.
I want someone who likes giving and taking a little bit of pain in bed.
I want someone that could kick my ass in Trivial Pursuit.
I want someone who enjoys 80's movies.
I want someone who I can have amazing intellectual conversations with, and childish fun conversations too.
I want someone continues to get turned on by me.
I want someone who is analytical but not overly annoyingly so.
I want someone who doesn't automatically blame others.
I want someone who knows how to pronounce big words.
I want someone who loves to watch the sun set.
I want someone who takes my breath away.
I want someone who understands that I take compliments very badly.
I want someone who can talk about zombies.
I want someone who knows how grateful I am even if I don't say it explicitly at the moment.
I want someone who respects my decisions.
I want someone who sometimes knows when I want sex without my ever having to say or do anything.
I want someone who doesn't judge my past actions.
I want someone who doesn't mind watching bad movies that I like.
I want someone who never ignores me.
I want someone who likes to watch me even when I pretend to not notice.
I want someone who I won't run out of things to talk about with.
I want someone who will randomly give me something that made them think of me.
I want someone that makes me feel lost in the moment, and the rest of the world has fallen away.
I want someone who is proud of their work and accomplishments.

I want someone who will sit outside with me and talk all night under the stars.
I want someone who will let me pay for things if I wish.
I want someone who realizes that I would actually appreciate dead flowers over live ones.
I want someone who doesn't celebrate Valentine's Day, but will show their appreciation for me everyday.
I want someone who has patience with me while I'm shopping.
I want someone who lets me do what I wish in life.
I want someone who makes me feel beautiful.
I want someone who is of any sex and gender.
I want someone who will make me feel like a kid at times.
I want someone who likes to play mini golf.
I want someone who will help me study for test.
I want someone who is interested in all my likes and hobbies.
I want someone who will play/touch my hair.
I want someone who is loyal.
I want someone who loves to talk about sex.
I want someone who can appreciate/respect particular art, music, film, etc. even if they don't particularly like it.
I want someone who doesn't intimidate me.
I want someone who will go to my friends' parties with me.
I want someone who likes to give and receive personal gifts, particularly those made by them or myself.
I want someone who really likes my artwork.
I want someone who will attend events and performances with me.
I want someone who likes to watch me sleep, no matter how many times they've seen it before.
I want someone who will play in the rain with me.
I want someone who likes the little flaws of my body.
I want someone who will have sex outside with me.
I want someone who I can be completely open with.
I want someone that is genuinely much happier when I'm around.
I want someone whose flaws don't annoy me.
I want someone who doesn't care if I take food off their plate or steal a sip of their drink.
I want someone who can laugh at the stupid things.
I want someone who recognizes that the act of me giving compliments is equivalent to giving a part of myself away.
I want someone who could easily list the things they like/love about me.
I want someone who gives original compliments.
I want someone who doesn't care for strip clubs.

I want someone that will have a romantic candlelit night with me.
I want someone who is amused by my Borat voice.
I want someone who says ridiculously funny things.
I want someone finds my dreadlocks sexy.
I want someone who never gets tired of my "your mom" or "that's what she said" jokes.
I want someone who will still find me attractive with smeared make up and fuzzy dreads in the morning.
I want someone who is proud to be with me.
I want someone who never feels the need to get away from me.
I want someone who leaves me wanting more.
I want someone who may wear something or some color because they know I will like it.
I want someone who will caress my ears.
I want someone who will do anything to see me, even if it's just for a minute.
I want someone who likes to brag about me to others.
I want someone who will always give a hello and goodbye hug.
I want someone who will always walk me to my car when I leave.
I want someone who would never do anything to hurt me.
I want someone who doesn't belittle me.
I want someone with nice eyes.
I want someone who cares about my safety.
I want someone who is always happy to see me.
I want someone who is always in awe with me, as I am with them.
I want someone who doesn't mind that I burp around them.
I want someone who knows when they're wrong.
I want someone who sleeps in total dark.
I want someone who laughs at the deaf jokes I make of myself.
I want someone who will let me suck on their lips.
I want someone that tells me I smell good.
I want someone who still tries to impress me although I'm already with them.
I want someone who understands my love for watching sexy movies.
I want someone who isn't intimidated by this list.
I want someone who will high five me.
I want someone that likes how ridiculous I can be.
I want someone who thinks everything I do is adorable.
I want someone who likes to suck my fingers and let me do the same to them.
I want someone that replies to my texts.
I want someone that won't tell me what to do.

I want someone who will leave me notes.
I want someone who will, if necessary, let me stand in front of them at a concert if I can't see.
I want someone who only has a healthy dose of jealousy or less.
I want someone who saves the things I give them.
I want someone who isn't overly prideful nor arrogant.
I want someone who won't assume everything is about them.
I want someone whose heartbeat will soothe me.
I want someone who won't take all the covers.
I want someone who silently makes everyone in the room aware that I am his/hers.
I want someone who will hold my hand while driving.
I want someone who doesn't take offense easily in playful settings.
I want someone who will make me an exception to all their rules.
I want someone who teaches me something new everyday.
I want someone who compliments the little things.
I want someone who is truthful.
I want someone that doesn't have to be drunk to be with me.
I want someone who passionately grabs my body during sex.
I want someone who will take photos of me, us.
I want someone who will take my shoes and clothes off for me if I'm incapable or unwell.
I want someone who is able to have their own life separate from me.
I want someone who will give me the last bite, if I really wanted it.
I want someone who could easily describe my personality to someone else in a way I've never heard before.
I want someone that resembles most of John Cusack's characters and thinks this line is funny but adorable.
I want someone who realizes that just because I'm bisexual, doesn't mean I want to be in a relationship with multiple people.
I want someone who uses my words just to make me smile.
I want someone who pays attention.
I want someone who is refreshing to be around.
I want someone who is pro-choice.
I want someone that would enjoy accompanying me while getting a tattoo or piercing.
I want someone who can be jokingly self-depreciating while having a healthy level of esteem.
I want someone isn't weird about, but is greatly attracted to my modified appearance.
I want someone who could hang out for hours at a book/film/media store with me.
I want someone who doesn't mind brushing their teeth after drinking coffee so I can kiss them.
I want someone that will hug me from behind.
I want someone who likes to spoon from time to time.
I want someone who will leave me texts, voicemails, or messages for me to wake up to.
I want someone who would take a bullet for me as I would them.

I want someone who doesn't mind my long scratching nails.
I want someone who can be poetic with their words.
I want someone who doesn't mind if I wear their clothes around the house.
I want someone who preferably lives alone so I don't have to worry about my loud sex noises.
I want someone who doesn't question me and my intentions.
I want someone who will countdown til midnight of my birthday with me.
I want someone who is genuinely curious how my day was.
I want someone who doesn't wallow in depression.
I want someone who will sensually touch my thighs.
I want someone who doesn't use the word "gay" with negative connotation.
I want someone that enjoys thrift stores.
I want someone who will show me photos of their youth.
I want someone who is always internally trying to figure out my feelings or my moods and is usually right.
I want someone who takes incredible pleasure in making me happy.
I want someone who doesn't negatively compare me to others.
I want someone who will help me with things I want to improve with myself.
I want someone whose presence alone turns me on.
I want someone who will make me feel unique.
I want someone with an amazing imagination.
I want someone who will protect me in mosh pits.
I want someone that will go to sex shops with me.
I want someone who doesn't leave a mess unattended all the time.
I want someone that doesn't judge my obsessions.
I want someone who is always intrigued by me.
I want someone that can do random spontaneous funny things just to make me laugh.
I want someone who likes my dog(s).
I want someone who will run their hands through my wet hair.
I want someone who listen to my problems, and doesn't try to make theirs seem worse to make me feel better.
I want someone who doesn't think I'm stupid when I don't know what something is or means.
I want someone who can laugh at my inability to pronounce some words.
I want someone with a sense of organization.
I want someone who can enjoy a scenery without speaking.
I want someone who loves science.
I want someone who remembers our conversations, what we've done, where we've been...
I want someone who won't offer advice if I only want them to listen.
I want someone who can focus on me if I'm in a wreck.
I want someone who knows what they want.
I want someone who doesn't sing over the music.
I want someone who will push my hearing aids into my ears if they squeak.
I want someone who uses Google and Wikipedia.
I want someone that likes healthy food.
I want someone who finds me easy to talk to and is incredibly comfortable with me.
I want someone who doesn't mind if I need to be lazy from time to time.
I want someone to have date nights with.
I want someone who tries to get to know people before judging them.
I want someone that is decent with technology.

I want someone who will rub various parts of my body if they hurt.
I want someone who can talk dirty.
I want someone enjoys my fascination with numerology.
I want someone who recognizes that I hate asking for help.
I want someone who won't use me.
I want someone who doesn't embarrass me.
I want someone who doesn't mind if we go separate ways in social settings, or that I can be a social butterfly.
I want someone who doesn't judge people on their sexual interests or preferences.
I want someone who thinks my scars are beautiful.
I want someone takes the hints.
I want someone who buys me something I've mentioned I wanted in passing.
I want someone who isn't a phony or fake.
I want someone who doesn't judge me when I drink.
I want someone who doesn't get annoyed when I can't hear them.
I want someone who can laugh at the stupid things I do.
I want someone who will tell me if I have food in my teeth.
I want someone who likes my lacy underwear.
I want someone with good ears to comfort me.
I want someone with an interesting blend of heritage/nationalities.
I want someone who understands me when I feel like being stubborn about my beliefs or feelings.
I want someone who is willing to admit the things they aren't super great at.
I want someone who is aware of their own strengths and flaws.
I want someone who will touch the small of my back.
I want someone who finds my voice soothing.
I want someone who can take care of themselves in social settings.
I want someone who knows how to fix things.
I want someone who is reminded of me when they see certain things.
I want someone who doesn't mind cuddling with dogs.
I want someone who knows how to unhook my bra.
I want someone who is able to take the words out of my mouth or finish my sentences.
I want someone who will pay some surprise visits.
I want someone who cherishes my skin.
I want someone that will see films and read books that I like.
I want someone who doesn't ignore my suggestions or advice.
I want someone who wants me.
I want someone with a random mind.
I want someone who cherishes whatever craziness or retardations I have.
I want someone who turns me on simply by the way they say my name.
I want someone who finds my touch therapeutic.
I want someone who loves my small boobs and big ass.
I want someone who remembers that I am left handed.
I want someone who doesn't get mad when I wake them up.
I want someone that constantly stimulates my mind.
I want someone who will wish me luck when I have an important thing to do.
I want someone who I respect and respects me.
I want someone that tells me to have sweet dreams.
I want someone who doesn't expect me to be lady-like.
I want someone who will hold my hair when I puke.
I want someone who loves and takes notice of my clothing style.
I want someone to fuck around with and be silly.
I want someone who is attracted to everything about me.
I want someone who keeps me on my toes.
I want someone that makes me feel giddy every time I think of them.
I want someone who will tell me things they haven't told others.
I want someone who is themselves around me.
I want someone who doesn't treat me any different when their friends or mine are around.
I want someone that thinks about me when they masturbate.
I want someone who thinks I'm beautiful in any situation, condition, mood, etc.
I want someone who enjoys museums.
I want someone who doesn't constantly chatter in the theater.

I want someone whose lips I love reading.
I want someone who always wears a seat belt in the car.
I want someone with a morbid sense of humor.
I want someone that can pick my voice and laughter out from a crowd.
I want someone who is a sweetheart to me.
I want someone that compliments my jewelry.
I want someone doesn't force me to ride roller coasters.
I want someone who doesn't judge me with my massive amount of clothing.
I want someone who I can connect with, mind and heart.
I want someone that easily makes me laugh.
I want someone that realizes there are more sexual things I like than I care to share with the public on this list.
I want someone who can easily figure out if I heard them or not even if I don't say I didn't.
I want someone with common sense.
I want someone who doesn't preach.
I want someone with a wide range of knowledge.
I want someone who doesn't want to sleep with my friends.
I want someone who is more intrigued by things and people than they are judgmental.
I want someone that doesn't have anything against the concept of assisted suicide.
I want someone who can be an ass/bitch to someone else when they really deserve it.
I want someone who won't cheat on me.
I want someone who isn't a hypocrite.
I want someone doesn't force or pressure me to do anything I don't want to do.
I want someone who actually enjoys talking to me and thinks I have something to offer.
I want someone who doesn't think gender is merely black and white.
I want someone who doesn't torture animals.
I want someone that would help someone in need.
I want someone that isn't afraid of their feelings for me.
I want someone that respects women.
I want someone who can be conscious of conserving energy and water.
I want someone who is a great writer.
I want someone who can participate and bring a lot to completely off the wall conversations
I want someone who doesn't let thoughts and/or beliefs of afterlife control how they live their life.
I want someone that cares enough to vote.
I want someone who will block the sun in my eyes, if it is bothering me.
I want someone who is curious about my hearing and how it affects my life and communication.
I want someone who wouldn't care if I decided to get any form of female sterilization.
I want someone that doesn't overlook me.
I want someone that is against censorship.
I want someone who isn't rude to waiters/waitresses/bartenders/etc.
I want someone who doesn't take forever to get ready.
I want someone who washes their hands at least a couple times a day.
I want someone that believes in separation of state and church.
I want someone who doesn't always have to be in a relationship.
I want someone who preferably isn't a virgin.
I want someone who doesn't like "professional" wrestling.
I want someone who would rather read books for the rest of their life than watch television for the rest of their life.
I want someone who supports the ideals of feminism, those being for equality.
I want someone that finds Scientology interesting but completely ridiculous.
I want someone who isn't angry when they drink, if they do drink.
I want someone who is good with sarcasm but doesn't overuse it.
I want someone that believes in relationship equality.

I want someone that would enjoy attending artistic events.
I want someone who isn't revengeful and immature.
I want someone who is a bookworm.
I want someone that thinks art is vital.
I want someone with relatively similar political beliefs as me.
I want someone who isn't incestuous.
I want someone who is aware that the concept of race is culturally and socially based, not biological.
I want someone who enjoys the feeling of my eyelashes on their skin.
I want someone who will sneak glances at me.
I want someone who realizes how oppressive religious texts are on women.
I want someone who can be diplomatic.
I want someone who eventually knows how to get to my house without getting lost.
I want someone whose mood is uplifted when I'm around.
I want someone that will go on adventures.
I want someone who makes my heart flutter.
I want someone who, for a long time, will still make flustered when I talk to them and of them.
I want someone who can at times read my mind.
I want someone who will grab and kiss me instead of rolling their eyes at the retarded/silly/etc. things I say or do.
I want someone who doesn't have to be center of attention.
I want someone who I can be me around.
I want someone who I can say "Good morning" to no matter what time of the day it is.
I want someone who I can occasionally play video games with for an entire day.
I want someone who believes in me.
I want someone that will kiss me during a red light stop.
I want someone that seriously loves my art and inspires me.
I want someone that is provoked into the depths of profound thought by some of my own profound thoughts or writings.
I want someone who I can have serious mature conversations with, especially when we are having issues.
I want someone who can still hug me when we have our downs.
I want someone who thinks I'm beautiful with or without make up and clothing.
I want someone that knows how to comfort me when something horrible happens.
I want someone who believes in shared housework.
I want someone who I can make jokes about jizz with.
I want someone who will let me rant about how much I hate commercials.
I want someone who likes to watch my hands while I speak.
I want someone that doesn't mind if I kiss them every time I feel a connection or a good moment.
I want someone who will pay surprise visits to my place of work.
I want someone who will sit and talk for as long as I want.
I want someone that still thinks I'm mysterious, even when they know me well.
I want someone who isn't selfish.
I want someone who won't call me names no matter what would ever happen.
I want someone who will let me massage them to sleep.
I want someone who is sometimes distracted by my beauty.
I want someone who can be a dreamer.
I want someone that likes that I ask the question "Why?" a lot.
I want someone that doesn't break expensive things when they're angry.
I want someone who isn't annoyed by my curious and over-analytic mind.
I want someone who never feels obligated to spend time with me, but chooses to.
I want someone who values the mind and all its beauty.
I want someone who is adorable even when they're sick.
I want someone who can appreciate imperfections in the world and its people.
I want someone that values communication.
I want someone that would find a child-like pleasure in using my body as musical instruments if they ever felt like it.

I want someone who will leave me alone if I'm sweaty and irritated in Arizona heat.
I want someone who carries themself in a way I find attractive and confident.
I want someone who is not egotistical.
I want someone who deserves my appreciation, adoration, love, affection, and care.
I want someone who recognizes that sometimes I have horrible jokes and won't hold it against me.
I want someone who I can share my secrets with and will share theirs with me.
I want someone who enjoys movies of all types.
I want someone who respects the traditions of others whether they agree or not.
I want someone who will let me help them if they need it.
I want someone who will lay a kiss on me while I'm asleep.
I want someone who doesn't take things for granted.
I want someone that is creative in conversations.
I want someone who isn't afraid to cry in front of me.
I want someone who thinks my being nervous is cute, but also tries to ease it. 
I want someone that can sense there is something wrong with me before I know it.
I want someone who will protect my hearing aids in the rain.
I want someone who I can just sit and listen to music with.
I want someone that will listen to me use a million words to describe something that could be said in much less.
I want someone who finds me endearing.
I want someone who doesn't make me feel ignorant because I don't always know the meaning of words.
I want someone who respects diversity.
I want someone who will eat my unwanted leftovers.
I want someone who keeps me up at night with just the thought of them.
I want someone to dream about.
I want someone who understands my varying definitions of words may not be exactly how they are used by the general public.
I want someone who recognizes when I'm sarcastic, even in text.
I want someone who will listen to my drunken rambles.
I want someone who has friends and family that love me.

I want someone who I read books with.
I want someone who will watch the weather change with me.
I want someone who will wake me up in the morning if I don't have my special alarm clock.
I want someone that finds my interests in Woody Allen films...interesting.
I want someone who won't force me to sing.
I want someone who will give it a chance to watch some of the shows I like.
I want someone who won't give me shit for all the romantic films I love to watch.
I want someone that will randomly have a staring contest with me.
I want someone who makes me blush.
I want someone who senses the compassion in my eyes.
I want someone that I could live without, but wouldn't want to.
I want someone who doesn't pull their phone out during a movie at the theater.
I want someone who realizes I can be pretty naive.
I want someone that isn't a sex offender or felon.
I want someone who preferably isn't a smoker.
I want someone that doesn't think war is justified.
I want someone that has a tendency to put others before themselves.
I want someone that won't be immature if a break up were to happen.
I want someone who recognizes the objectification that occurs in a good number of pornography.
I want someone that doesn't want an open relationship nor anything casual.
I want someone who loves my brown eyes.
I want someone who asks me how I'm doing everyday after a unpleasant experience/occurrence.
I want someone that is fine with being friends first.
I want someone that asks what's wrong instead of walking away.
I want someone who doesn't view my current living situation as a turn off or stupid.
I want someone who is more than fine with the fact that I'm an atheist.
I want someone who isn't creepy.
I want someone who isn't a manwhore or slut.
I want someone who never gives me a reason to be upset with them.
I want someone who isn't interested in sharing me with others sexually and vice versa.
I want someone who reciprocates kindness, not out of obligation.
I want someone who values intimacy.
I want someone who won't fake their enjoyment of sexual pleasure.
I want someone who won't expect sex from me on the first date.
I want someone who will give me the time to think through things.
I want someone that won't cover his or her mouth when speaking to me.
I want someone that will be my muse and I theirs.
I want someone who I find attractive when they're in deep thought.

I want someone that will watch The Fountain with me.
I want someone that doesn't mind my occasional hookah and cigars.
I want someone who will appreciate the music I like and is curious about what I like about it.
I want someone who doesn't care what food and how much of it I eat.
I want someone that generally cleans up after themselves.
I want someone who is respectful around children.
I want someone who has or will take up an interest in astronomy.
I want someone who will promote and inspire mental growth for me, as I will for them.
I want someone who preferably doesn't already have kids.
I want someone that wouldn't date someone that's in another relationship.
I want someone that believes in weapon safety, if they own weapons.
I want someone who isn't brainwashed.
I want someone who does believe Pluto is still a planet.
I want someone who isn't unnecessarily extravagant with their money.
I want someone who enjoys giving and receiving foreplay.
I want someone who is rational.

I want someone who has read Fahrenheit 451 and greatly appreciates it.
I want someone that cares about the suffering of others.
I want someone who doesn't care if I get glitter on them.
I want someone with a good sense of logic.
I want someone who is strongly against domestic abuse.
I want someone who doesn't spend every second of their waking life complaining. 
I want someone who finds intellect a turn on.
I want someone who would come to see me regardless of the time if something horrible happened to me.
I want someone who likes my feet.
I want someone that will support my interests/hobbies/activities even if they aren't particularly into it.
I want someone who knows how nervous public speaking makes me.
I want someone who is knowledgeable of history.
I want someone who doesn't have to make much effort in making me smile.
I want someone who will send me emails of random things they think I'll be interested in.
I want someone who would end it with me if we both knew we would be happier elsewhere.
I want someone who can handle my Scorpionicness.
I want someone that doesn't bore me.
I want someone with a good sized bed.
I want someone who will let me reminisce our past and how we met.
I want someone who can tell when I'm making the moves on them.
I want someone who enjoys kissing after oral sex.
I want someone who would enjoy bringing me along on a trip.
I want someone who enjoys going to the zoo.
I want someone who likes my painted nails.
I want someone who embraces who they are.
I want someone who has a lot of experiences to share.
I want someone who will hear me out.
I want someone who thinks I'm special.
I want someone who won't go overboard with tickling me.
I want someone who is easy to make plans with and doesn't constantly change them at the last minute.
I want someone who finds me easy to talk to.
I want someone who feels lucky rather than jealous when others are attracted to me.
I want someone who wants to have experiences with me.
I want someone who is interested in biology and physics.
I want someone who isn't bothered by the natural occurrences of the female body.
I want someone that won't second guess me.
I want someone who appreciates leather.
I want someone who I can trust to borrow things.
I want someone who will respect my privacy when I need it.
I want someone who knows how to say the right things.

I want someone who recognizes that although I'm a realist, I'm still a hopeless romantic.
I want someone who isn't bothered by the jewelry that's attached to my body.
I want someone who would be pleased to know I'm not moody nor do I PMS.
I want someone that doesn't particularly like Christmas music.
I want someone who doesn't seriously make fun of my interests, as I wouldn't do that to them.
I want someone who respects my choices.
I want someone who has time for me.
I want someone that doesn't have any particularly disgusting habits.
I want someone who won't reject me when I'm trying to initiate sex.
I want someone who embraces the person I am.
I want someone that can laugh at the little things.
I want someone who has their own distinctive handwriting.
I want someone whose voice doesn't annoy me.
I want someone who excites me every time they walk into the room.
I want someone who continues to open my third eye.
I want someone that will allow me to calm them down if they are upset with something or someone.
I want someone who won't give me ultimatums.
I want someone who is not verbally nor physically abusive.
I want someone who enjoys the big cities and open nature as well.
I want someone whose smell I enjoy.
I want someone who isn't afraid of most bugs.
I want someone who doesn't think humans are the most important species.
I want someone who will take things slow.
I want someone who laughs at my wine stained teeth.
I want someone who wouldn't expect me to change my name IF we were to get married.
I want someone who doesn't think all Scorpios are evil.
I want someone who doesn't think any one religion is better than another.
I want someone who wouldn't teach their hypothetical children of Santa and such.
I want someone who doesn't call me by the pet name "Babe."

I want someone who knows that the only way I will choose to live forever is if I were a vampire.
I want someone who is alright with kids, even if they don't want them.
I want someone who isn't bothered by my interests in working in the death industry [e.g. mortician, embalmer, hospice, osteologist, forensics, etc.]
I want someone who is aware of my fascination with Buddhism.
I want someone who would rather put things out there instead of hiding it from me.
I want someone who is easy to communicate with in regards to having our alone time.
I want someone who doesn't entirely give a shit about celebrity gossip.
I want someone that recognizes that life will end eventually on planet Earth.
I want someone who firmly believes in the freedom of speech.
I want someone who is capable of loving others.
I want someone who is fascinated by language.
I want someone who knows that the Sun is a star.
I want someone who would enjoy a night in the bathtub with me.
I want someone who doesn't bullshit everything.
I want someone who would be interested in learning some basic American Sign Language.
I want someone who isn't easily influenced by others.
I want someone who isn't bothered by how open I am with my friends.
I want someone who doesn't mind that I like to let my dog sleep on my bed.
I want someone who is more liberal.

I want someone who knows what auroras are.
I want someone who is pro gay marriage.
I want someone that generally has good breath.
I want someone who would be interested in watching a meteor shower with me.
I want someone who would be more offended by book burning than flag burning.
I want someone who won't yell at me.
I want someone who would actually read a book I recommended.
I want someone who isn't offended by my jokes.
I want someone that becomes more attracted to me when they catch me doing something silly.
I want someone who enjoys educational television and film.
I want someone who is beautiful on the inside and out.
I want someone who doesn't care for clubbing.
I want someone who graduated high school.
I want someone that will kiss my calves.
I want someone who isn't ethnocentric.
I want someone that doesn't support gene therapy.
I want someone that cares about the greater good.
I want someone who is gregarious.
I want someone that is genuinely happy when others succeed.
I want someone who will fondle me while I'm asleep to initiate sex.
I want someone that is capable of comforting me after nightmares.
I want someone who has their own passions.
I want someone who isn't awkward no matter the amount of time that has passed since we last saw each other.
I want someone who I don't have to prove myself to.
I want someone who is like-minded.
I want someone who knows I always have good intentions.
I want someone who will tell me it's alright.
I want someone who will fall asleep on me.
I want someone who recognizes that my past makes me who I am now.
I want someone that recognizes their actions have consequences.
I want someone that enjoys lazy Sundays.

I want someone who appreciates Tool and Massive Attack.
I want someone who has a number of friends.
I want someone who doesn't place high emphasis on physical appearance.
I want someone who isn't superficial in any way.
I want someone who will nibble and bite on my shoulder and the back of my neck.
I want someone who will take me to an opera for the first time.
I want someone who does little to no gambling.
I want someone who doesn't correlate levels of fidelity with sexual orientations
I want someone that isn't completely closed off to new age concepts, such as tarot and palm reading.
I want someone who understands a lot about the science of language comprehension and production.
I want someone who isn't bothered by sharing a toothbrush if necessary.
I want someone who doesn't think there's anything wrong with same sex couples that have kids.
I want someone that believes the existence of all beings is significant no matter how "worthless" some believe certain beings to be.
I want someone that understands that a lot of concepts are subjective and is interested in learning other perspectives.
I want someone who understands that I often worry about things out of my control.
I want someone who recognizes that I'm a great girlfriend.
I want someone that hardly litters.
I want someone who will go out of their way for others.
I want someone who believes in just breaking up instead of cheating.
I want someone who knows I'm not interested in one night stands.
I want someone who won't spoil the end of films and novels for me unless I told them to.
I want someone who appreciates my enjoyment of Legos.
I want someone who will fondle me while I'm driving and let me do the same to them.
I want someone who is intrigued by consciousness.

I want someone who prefers more curvaceous body types.
I want someone who is curious to hear the stories of my family.
I want someone who, if ever wanted or hypothetically got married, would be interested in having a nontraditional wedding.
I want someone who is "fetish friendly."
I want someone who will be monogamous with me.
I want someone who will never make me feel bad abut the things I like.
I want someone that knows it's not easy for me to forgive and forget.
I want someone who cares enough to get tested for STDs.
I want someone who doesn't bullshit everything.
I want someone that is respectful in family gatherings.
I want someone who will let me sleep in, in their bed while they have to go to work/school/etc.
I want someone who is good at or respects math.  
I want someone who doesn't feel the overwhelming need to shower after sex.
I want someone who won't forbid me from anything.
I want someone who doesn't mind my kinkiness.
I want someone who preferably also has a college education.
I want someone that doesn't believe Noah's Arc really happened.
I want someone who won't show up for a date drunk.
I want someone who will cuddle and watch Netflix movies with me.
I want someone who would enjoy me sleeping naked with them.
I want someone that believes in dinosaurs.
I want someone who isn't growing or cultivating drugs in their living space.
I want someone who preferably has never cheated on a past lover.
I want someone who knows what kind of car I drive.
I want someone who isn't sexually attracted to children.
I want someone who puts more weight in science rather than faith.
I want someone who has a deep appreciation for human anatomy and physiology.
I want someone who is open to dating people with various "disabilities."
I want someone who doesn't think violence solves much of anything.
I want someone who has nothing against the sex or ethnicity of a potential president.
I want someone who loves giving and receiving oral pleasure.
I want someone who doesn't feel weird looking up the definitions of words.
I want someone who is honorable.
I want someone who doesn't always feel the need to get drunk.
I want someone who isn't overly spontaneous and dangerous to the point that it makes me really nervous.
I want someone that is an information sponge.
I want someone who takes their work seriously.
I want someone who generally invests in long term relationships.
I want someone who doesn't view contraception as morally wrong.
I want someone who is capable of making the changes they want in life.
I want someone who hasn't had a lot of conflict with the law.
I want someone who is living, or is a vampire.
I want someone who is as disgusted by most reality shows as I am.
I want someone who believes in super volcanoes.
I want someone who doesn't cling to me when we're around others.
I want someone who thinks I'm adorable in my childhood photos.
I want someone who doesn't care if they will never see my natural hair color for as long as they know me.
I want someone who cares about my opinion.
I want someone that can hold eye contact with me.
I want someone who can be my best friend.
I want someone who can't get enough of me.
I want someone who loves my mind.
I want someone who doesn't try to change me.
Update 3.10.11: I want someone who will write/tell poems or lists of things they love and notice about me.
I want someone who I can talk to about the apocalypse.
I want someone who knows that I'm far too emotional for arguments/fights, and I suck at them.
I want someone who loves to watch me orgasm.
I want someone who knows the right moments to be near me.
I want someone that doesn't see anything in me that is in need of change.
I want someone who will always be thrilled if they unexpectedly run into me in public.
I want someone who will make the first move if I haven't already.
I want someone who will rub my head.
I want someone who feels unconditionally for me.
I want someone whose compliments consistently fluster me.
I want someone that effortlessly makes me laugh incredibly hard.
I want someone who will always give me the second [or third, or tenth] kiss.
I want someone who gives me something to write about.
I want someone who gives me books as gifts.
I want someone who analyzes and interprets me on such a deep level.
I want someone who has patience to teach me things I don't know.
I want someone who watches me walk away.
Update 6.10.11: I want someone who always tells me when they miss me.
I want someone who will find the oddest things about me to compliment.
I want someone who will realize my potential.
I want someone who is affected by me.